Weddings are meant to celebrate love and family, but unexpected challenges can arise. At my son’s wedding, his bride insisted on a fully vegan menu. I respected her choice, but I noticed some relatives quietly missing our family’s traditional barbecue. I wondered if there was a way to honor both her values and our traditions.
So, I arranged a small, discreet barbecue setup off to the side. The ceremony was beautiful, and the vegan dishes shone—but later, the aroma of smoky barbecue drew curious guests. People gathered, shared bites, and laughed, blending both menus in a way that felt natural.
At first, my daughter-in-law looked unsure, but as she saw everyone enjoying both styles together, her expression softened. By the end of the night, my son whispered, “Mom, this was perfect.”
That moment taught me that weddings aren’t just about uniting two people—they’re about embracing differences, honoring traditions, and creating harmony. Sometimes, even a small gesture like a side barbecue can bring everyone together.