I spent three years loving a man, certain he’d propose on our anniversary. Instead, his heartless prank made me a laughingstock—until I turned it around and reclaimed my power.
Our third anniversary had my heart racing with hope. My boyfriend, Ethan, 30, like me, booked a swanky restaurant and teased a “huge surprise.” I thought it was a ring. Instead, he humiliated me, and I made sure he felt the sting in return.
Let’s rewind. Ethan and I hadn’t moved in together, but we’d been planning to, even debating whether to adopt a puppy. For our anniversary, he reserved a spot at an upscale downtown eatery—dim chandeliers, silk tablecloths, the kind of place that whispered “big moment.” He told me to dress up, so I wore a ruby-red dress he’d once called “mesmerizing,” got a manicure, and felt like I was floating.
Work had been crushing me. I’d poured everything into a promotion at my tech firm, leading a high-stakes project and mentoring a rookie, Liam, just out of college. But Liam got the job. Why? Office whispers claimed I’d “probably get married and have kids soon.” At 30, my ambition was seen as a gamble. No one said it outright, but a coworker murmured, “Management doesn’t bet on someone who might take maternity leave.” I hid my hurt, confided in Ethan, and thought he understood. This dinner was my escape.
I tried to temper my expectations, telling myself it might not be a proposal. But I imagined Ethan sliding a ring across the table, saying, “You’re my biggest win, no matter what work thinks.”
Dinner began beautifully. Ethan said my dress made me look “graceful but bold,” making me giggle. We sipped cocktails, shared bruschetta. But he was jittery—glancing at his phone, picking at his food, drumming his fingers. When dessert arrived, I sat up, pulse racing, expecting a velvet box.
Instead, the waiter set down a plate with a slice of lemon cake, green frosting spelling: “Congrats on Your Promotion!” My smile cracked. “What’s this?” I whispered.
Ethan grinned like he’d nailed a prank. “Surprise! Thought it’d lift your spirits!” The waiter smiled. “Big news! What’s the new title?” I mumbled, “It’s… not confirmed.” Ethan waved it off. “She’s just humble. It’s basically hers.”
My cheeks burned. “You know I didn’t get it,” I hissed. “I know,” he said, still smirking. “I thought this’d cheer you up. You’ve been so stressed. Just manifesting good vibes, babe.” I shoved the plate aside. “You let everyone think I got something I didn’t. That’s not cheering me up—it’s mortifying!”
He leaned back, scoffing. “You’re blowing this out of proportion. I was being sweet.” “Sweet?” I snapped, voice trembling. “I lost that promotion because they think I’m a mom-to-be, not a leader. You knew! You turned my failure into a joke!” He rolled his eyes. “You weren’t even that close to it. This was the only way you’d hear ‘congrats.’”
His words gutted me. “You didn’t do this to help me. You wanted a laugh.” He muttered, “So dramatic,” avoiding my gaze. I pulled out my card, paid my share, and said, “Leave.” He grumbled about me “wrecking the night” and stormed out.
I lingered, ordered another cocktail, and let my heart settle. The waiter checked on me, gentle but hesitant. Ethan texted for days; I didn’t reply. My friends were split—some called his prank “lighthearted,” others said it was mean. My best friend, Nina, texted, “You need a comeback, girl.”
Ethan loved his flashy “Ethan Extravaganza” birthdays, obsessing over his appearance, especially his thinning hair. So I planned a party. I texted him: “Maybe I was too harsh. Come over—I’ve got a surprise.” He arrived, smug in a fitted shirt, smirking. “You know you overreacted, right?”
“Just come in,” I said. Inside, my apartment glowed with gold balloons and a banner: “Congrats on Your New Bald Look!” A cake, mimicking his, read: “Manifesting It Early!” Our friends—his and mine—grinned, most laughing.
Ethan’s face flushed scarlet. “What is this?!” “Just spreading good vibes,” I said, smiling. His friend Alex choked on his soda; another, Kyle, muttered, “That’s ruthless,” but smirked. Ethan yelled, “This isn’t funny!” “Was mine?” I shot back. “You mocked my hard work. I just reflected it.”
“It’s different!” he snapped. Alex shrugged. “You faked her promotion, dude. That was low.” Kyle added, “I said that cake was a bad idea.” Another friend, Sara, frowned. “This is immature, both of you.” “You can leave,” I told her.
Ethan stormed out, shouting, “We’re done!” “Good,” I said, sipping my drink. Most friends trickled out, some awkwardly. Then Alex stayed, leaning by the cake. “Ethan said you were too serious. That was brilliant.” I raised an eyebrow. “Not mad I roasted your friend?” He grinned. “He’s been a jerk. You’re worth more.”
I blinked, caught off guard. “Free this weekend?” he asked. “Maybe,” I smiled. “No bald cakes?” “Only if you earn one,” I teased. We laughed, and for the first time in days, I felt free.
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